
Er, not convinced this is going to make any effect at all.
Metal expands as it heats, but not to any great amount at these temperatures. A hair dryer (why not use your own hair dryer, or your brother's? Men have been known to indulge in hair care too) would need to be hot enough to burn through hair, scalp, flesh, bone and brain for it to make the phono plug more malleable.
Cleaning all the plugs from time to time is good audiophile form, especially if there's a smoker in the house and doubly so if the phono plugs and similar are tin plated - where oxidisation discolours the plugs. Whether this has a sonic implication is dubious, though.
Most of this cleaning can be done by plugging and unplugging the connection a few times, or by using a contact cleaning solution like isopropyl alcohol on the end of a Q-Tip. If you feel like being tweaky though, pay money for Kontak, Reson Licon or Russ Andrews Reveel.